Made for people who mean it.
Three dating apps, one quiet belief — that meeting someone should feel safe, honest, and unhurried. No games. No noise. Just real people, ready when you are.
We think dating lost the plot. So we rebuilt it around the thing that matters — a genuine connection, on your terms, without the games.
Real people, verified
Layered checks — phone, photo, and ID — so who you meet is who they say they are.
Private by design
Approximate distance, never a live map. You decide what's shown and where you appear.
Built for conversation
No streaks, no timers, no pressure. Just space to talk and see where it goes.
Three apps, each its own world.
Same care, same safety, same shared community underneath — with a home that's designed for who you're looking for.
Aura
Dating, for everyone
An open, inclusive space to meet — whoever you are, whoever you're hoping to find.
Explore Aura
Himr
For men, into men
A focused, respectful community built around gay and bi men — dating, not just meeting.
Explore Himr
Herr
For women, into women
A warm home for queer women and non-binary sapphic folks to find something real.
Explore Herr
Profiles that feel like people.
We put photography and personality first — not scores, not percentages. See what you actually have in common, then decide for yourself.
Real reasons, not ratings
"You both love live music" beats a made-up 95% match.
Photo-first, always
Big, honest photos and prompts — with private albums you control.
No dark patterns
No countdowns, no bait, no fake urgency. Move at your own pace.
Close by — without giving your location away.
Around You shows who's nearby using gentle distance bands, never a map or a pin. Say hello first with a single Intro Request — thoughtful, limited, and always yours to accept or decline.
"Saw we both love live music — favourite venue in town?"
Trust you can see, control you can feel.
Verification, in levels
Every badge means something specific — phone by SMS, photo by live selfie, identity by government ID. Never one vague tick.
Location, kept vague
Distance bands, never coordinates. No live map, no pins on people. Hide your distance entirely if you like.
Report, block, done
One tap to report or block — and a block holds across Aura, Himr and Herr. Real people review every report.
You're always in control. Pause your profile, go incognito, hide your age or distance, and decide exactly which apps your profile appears in — with clear consent, never by default.
Read our safety promise
You both love indie music — what's on repeat?
Hey! Loved your hiking photos 🥾
That's Bà Nà — worth every step. You'd love it.
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The best part is the talking.
A gentle opener when you match, voice notes and photos when words aren't enough, and privacy controls that are actually yours — read receipts, typing, last-seen, all optional.
Which space is yours?
Pick the app that fits — you can always be seen in others with your consent.
Universal dating, open to all genders and orientations.
A dedicated home for gay and bi men.
A warm space for queer women and sapphic folks.
Someone worth meeting is already nearby.
Download the app that fits and make your first real connection today.