How we treat each other here.
These aren't fine print — they're the culture we protect. Everyone on Aura, Himr and Herr agrees to them, and we enforce them.
The essentials
Be real
Use your own recent photos and honest details. No impersonation, catfishing, or fake profiles.
Be respectful
No harassment, hate speech, threats, or discrimination. A "no" is a complete answer.
Be safe
Never ask for money. Don't share others' private photos or information without consent.
Be 18+
These are adults-only communities. Anyone underage is removed immediately.
Not allowed, ever
Solicitation, sex work, or transactional arrangements
Scams, financial requests, or off-platform "investment" pitches
Nudity or sexual content in public photos, and any illegal content
Spam, mass-messaging, or bot-driven activity
How we enforce this
Depending on severity, we warn, restrict, suspend, or permanently ban — and serious cases can be removed without warning. Bans apply across Aura, Himr and Herr. If you think we got it wrong, you can appeal, and a person will review it.
Read our full safety approach →