Safety isn't a setting. It's the whole point.
We'd rather grow slowly and keep people safe than chase numbers. Here's exactly how we protect you — and how much control you have.
Three levels of trust, clearly labelled.
A badge should tell you exactly what's been checked — so we never hide different things behind one vague tick.
A real number
Confirmed by a one-time SMS code. The baseline that keeps out throwaway accounts.
A real face
A live selfie matched to profile photos, so what you see is who shows up.
Nearby, never pinpointed.
We show closeness with gentle distance bands and nothing more. There's no live map, no dots on a grid, and no way to trace where you are.
Bucketed distance — "Under 1 km", "1–3 km", never an exact figure.
Hide distance entirely, hide your age, or go incognito whenever you want.
Precise data is kept briefly and coarsened — it isn't stored to track you.
Report once. Protected everywhere.
Network-wide blocks
Block someone on Aura and they can't reach you on Himr or Herr either. One community, kept safe as one.
Real human review
Every report reaches a trained moderator, with photo and message moderation working around the clock.
Scam & abuse detection
We warn you about money requests, catch mass-messaging, and reduce the reach of risky accounts.
Report or block is always free
Safety tools are never behind a wall — and never will be.
Meeting someone new? A little care goes a long way.
Choose a busy place for the first few dates and arrange your own way there and back.
Share your plans with someone you trust, and keep first conversations inside the app.
No genuine match will ask for cash or gifts. If they do, report it — we'll take it seriously.